Do all women bleed during their first sexual intercourse?

This question sparks many beliefs and can be quite controversial. The hymen is a membrane located at the internal edges of the vagina, shaped like an irregular ring. Its appearance varies; it can be thin or thick, smooth or pleated, flexible or rigid. It is open from birth to allow menstrual blood to flow from puberty. Depending on its characteristics, the hymen may tear or simply stretch during the first penetration. So, contrary to popular belief, it's common for a young woman not to bleed during this experience—studies suggest this applies to nearly 40% of women.

Bleeding during first intercourse is often mistakenly seen as proof of virginity. When it doesn’t happen, it can lead to misunderstandings and stigma for women. Attitudes toward sexuality among young women differ widely; some prefer to maintain their virginity longer while others are eager to explore their sexuality sooner.

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